Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

I’m always sacrificing my own welfare for the benefit of my husband and my parents, in order to make them happy.

Approaching this by trying to get him to focus more time on you is an attempt to control what can’t be controlled in reality, and it is a backwards approach to the problem.

To manifest what you consciously desire, there has to be some combination of alignment between the conscious mind, the unconscious mind, and the higher self..

His real needs would have been more like the need for love or acceptance. And those can’t be grabbed or taken from someone else.

“…The reason I can dig underneath the surface of what appears to be negative material that’s showing up on the surface, is because I know that when you get underneath it, it’s always positive…”

“What frequently happens is I work really hard to get someone to see what the issue is, and then immediately they want me to tell them what the solution is so they can get rid of it without having acknowledged the truth of it in the first place.”