Jane is an Intuitive and Transformational Counselor, Teacher, Author and Visionary.

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Q & A: “People don’t feel important anymore.”

The issue here is who or what is defining your experience of reality. Is it being defined from outside yourself or from inside yourself? In the old paradigm it was your boss, and the structure of the company, that was defining what your value was, according to how well you fit into what serves the interests of the company and/or the people who control it. … But this definition of value is limited by the particular perspectives of the people who control it. It is therefore defined by a human construct, which is not necessarily aligned with what is inherently true. Human constructs can’t define your actual value.

Q & A: “What would a real relationship be like?”

When you get to the bottom of what is true between people, it always is love. That is what is underneath the separation, the fear, the anger, and the pain. But most people are so daunted by the dragon at the gateway to coming together with the other, they never find that out.

Q & A: “What commitment do I owe my wife?”

The question is what you are committed to. From a shallow kind of perspective, people can be committed to what makes them feel good in the moment. And so when things get difficult they just leave. On the other side of the pendulum …

Emotional Defense Systems Keep People from Evolving

as your desire to evolve as a soul gets stronger and stronger, the defense system gets more and more in the way…

Life Appearing to Not Work is Not in Reality

If you’re feeling something along the lines of life can’t work, or it’s not working, or it’s not going to work, then you know it’s got to be out of reality…

The Old Male-Female Paradigm is Just as Hard on Men as on Women

It’s just a huge burden. And if the man doesn’t do those things a man is supposed to do, he’s not considered a man, and he doesn’t feel good about himself.

Coming into Direct Contact with Reality

The group is a different kind of social situation, in which instead of people going along with your defense systems or skirting around them, they are putting in the picture their own experience…

People Are Generally Always Manipulating Their Circumstances

We think that it’s our manipulations and our fudgings and our organizing things this way and that way, from our limited perspective, that is somehow making life work.

Uncovering Emotional Defense Systems in the Transformational Group

there’s an energetic goal of feeling a certain way, and then that becomes symbolic for you getting something. But it is not the real thing.

Getting through the Emotional Defense System

…holding in place a whole frame-of-reference that you’re sure is true and not allowing a space to actually find out what is true.