Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

…it’s never an attachment to the person himself that is what you’re really wanting. It’s the heart of intimacy, the heart of love.

You are never controlled by someone outside of yourself. When you clear the limiting decision, you find that your life shifts, no matter what it is that others are doing.

Basically, defense systems are a manipulation. People are manipulating each other practically all of the time, often in very subtle, unconscious ways.

His real needs would have been more like the need for love or acceptance. And those can’t be grabbed or taken from someone else.

“…so much divorce right now, because people have been trying to conform to some external ideal of what marriage is supposed to be…”

“It’s an amazing miracle to watch what happens after you clear a limiting decision that has been distorting an area of your life. …”

“…trying to block your own needs is blocking the Divine flow of things. It is moving you out of truth, and that causes a distortion in your experience, and it doesn’t help her. …”

“…The evolutionary process is not about getting rid of the physical; it’s transforming it through the spiritual.”

“…When you can’t connect with your guidance, then you’re dependent on life to just carry you along, without your conscious participation. …”

“The role of rules in human life is an evolving process. People, in their less evolved stages, have a greater need for rules than they do as they become more evolved. …”