Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

“…Each of you are struggling to be in control of defining reality, as if you need the other person to agree with your reality, and they need you to agree with theirs…”

“…When people reveal where they’re really at, where they think something negative is going to happen, what actually happens is it makes them accessible to other people — for them to love you…”

“… You don’t have to be in pain in order to be vulnerable. Vulnerability really has to do with love. And actually the bottommost truth about the painful areas we’ve been talking about has to do with love…”

“…the child expresses the way they see things; and can in one second shatter through the defense system the parent has built…”

“… At some point you decided, ‘I’m going to do what I want to do,’ and you put up a wall so you wouldn’t feel manipulated by what the other person wants. So basically what you’re doing is blocking communication…”

“Generally what happens (in the model I use), is every time a person makes a limiting decision, they are building up an alternative self…”

“…despite yourself people see where you are, more than you want them to see. And I think the big turning point for you is when you realize that hiding yourself keeps people from loving you…”

From Janine’s NLP TimeLine Therapy Session with Jane 6-29-09 The limiting decision Janine cleared using the TimeLine process: “Life is limitless pain.” The first event in which she made this decision: Many generations ago. She is 14 years old, and she left her body and went insane because there was so much suffering. Her parents [...]

Transcript Excerpt of Jane’s Teachings during an NLP TimeLine Therapy Session with Janine 6-29-09: (Name is changed to protect client’s privacy.) “What causes people to make limiting decisions is some event occurs in your life that you don’t have the conscious tools to make sense of. You’re in an experience of the unknown. So you [...]

“…It’s a dynamic paradigm of reality that is being held in place here. And as each person in the group moves forward, they’re participating on higher and higher levels, at holding it in place…”