Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

The universe is filled with resources, but they may not come in the form or direction you expect them to come in or from.

You experience Katie as being hurtful to you. But who is hurting who is extremely subjective.

It’s just a huge burden. And if the man doesn’t do those things a man is supposed to do, he’s not considered a man, and he doesn’t feel good about himself.

The pattern for you could, for instance, be that you are available when the woman is not, and you are not available when they are.

From the standpoint that life is meant to work, if Linda is attracting something that isn’t working for her, by definition there has to be a limiting decision* holding this pattern in place.

“It’s an amazing miracle to watch what happens after you clear a limiting decision that has been distorting an area of your life. …”

“In relationships, people often try to compromise themselves or change the other person in order to make things work between them. And when that doesn’t work and they get fed up enough, they just cut the relationship off…”

“…It’s important to understand the distinction between self-interest as a defense system, which is what selfishness is — and enlightened self-interest, which is what really matters to you, and which is in alignment with life, the universe. …”

“…We’re talking about really being true to yourself, which means you honor your real emotions, which is the only way a relationship could possibly work in the first place. …”

“Taking the action is not the most important thing. The important thing is to straighten out whatever is causing the conflict about the action…”