Once you have dealt with the limiting decisions* at the bottom of the emotions he brings up in you, you will find there is nothing to forgive.
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Once you have dealt with the limiting decisions* at the bottom of the emotions he brings up in you, you will find there is nothing to forgive. This course will help you make sense of a world that no longer makes sense in the old frames-of-reference. The path to love isn’t always obvious or straightforward. Many things people think they do out of love are not really about love. You experience Katie as being hurtful to you. But who is hurting who is extremely subjective. It’s just a huge burden. And if the man doesn’t do those things a man is supposed to do, he’s not considered a man, and he doesn’t feel good about himself. The pattern for you could, for instance, be that you are available when the woman is not, and you are not available when they are. From the standpoint that life is meant to work, if Linda is attracting something that isn’t working for her, by definition there has to be a limiting decision* holding this pattern in place. “It’s an amazing miracle to watch what happens after you clear a limiting decision that has been distorting an area of your life. …” “…There is a world of difference between revealing your responses — and judging or giving advice. Revealing your responses makes you emotionally vulnerable,…” “In relationships, people often try to compromise themselves or change the other person in order to make things work between them. And when that doesn’t work and they get fed up enough, they just cut the relationship off…” |
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