Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

“…When people reveal where they’re really at, where they think something negative is going to happen, what actually happens is it makes them accessible to other people — for them to love you…”

“…the child expresses the way they see things; and can in one second shatter through the defense system the parent has built…”

“… At some point you decided, ‘I’m going to do what I want to do,’ and you put up a wall so you wouldn’t feel manipulated by what the other person wants. So basically what you’re doing is blocking communication…”

From Janine’s NLP TimeLine Therapy Session with Jane 6-29-09 The limiting decision Janine cleared using the TimeLine process: “Life is limitless pain.” The first event in which she made this decision: Many generations ago. She is 14 years old, and she left her body and went insane because there was so much suffering. Her parents [...]

“…in order to facilitate the level of reframe necessary for significant change it’s necessary to hold in place a consistent spiritual knowing about the positive nature of life…”

“…It’s a dynamic paradigm of reality that is being held in place here. And as each person in the group moves forward, they’re participating on higher and higher levels, at holding it in place…”

“…You have used your solidity, your strength, your ‘can’t knock you over’ to hold in place your defense system. But that’s not serving you. It’s not allowing you to evolve further…”

“…When children reach adolescence, they start rebelling against their parents. They start saying ‘I don’t believe what you believe. I don’t think what you think. And I don’t want what you want.’…”

“…The reason that you get taken advantage of is because you’re not consciously present in the situations in which trust is an issue. If you were present it would be obvious to you what you could trust and what you could not trust…”

“…Aligning with mainstream thought, in order to have a sense of what reality is, was important in past eras, when people couldn’t connect with reality from their direct inner source. Then you have to have the consensus…”