Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

“…When the illusion of reality that most people live in, that they think is what is really supporting them, when they go past it, it seems to be a really big transition. It is about shifting survival systems.”

“This is a very significant period of time in human history. The fact that old structures have been falling apart is causing people to reframe where their source of safety and well-being is…”

“You’ve gone along with men acting like this before, because you’ve had such a thick defense system. But the defense system is getting shaken up, and is no longer serving you, and therefore you are more present emotionally and vulnerably in a way you haven’t been before…”

“Because I’m documenting this on my blog, when we clear things, and you shift, and you see that things work that you thought could not possibly work, it’s going to be down in black and white. This whole work is a demonstration that life is meant to work…”

“There’s a whole area of communication that you misinterpret in a way that goes against yourself. You’re interpreting things against yourself so rapidly, that it’s hard to catch it in the moment…”

“When you recently started saying to Donna how you really are responding to her, you started saying what you saw from your own eyes, which then enabled you to start defining reality for yourself. That was empowering for you and made a big difference in your relationship.”

Transcript Excerpts of Jane’s Teachings during the “Shifting into Your New Consciousness” group experience 4/16/09 (Names of participants are changed to protect their privacy.) (To Jocelyn) “The defense system that keeps your investment in being a victim in place, affects everything you do, because your unconscious mind is in charge and is invested in proving [...]

Transcript Excerpts of Jane’s Teachings during the “Shifting into Your New Consciousness” group experience 4/16/09 (Names of participants are changed to protect their privacy.) ” … With both Janet and Renee there’s a similar quality. You’re both originals. And it’s a question of valuing that. You (Janet) were wondering whether what you said to Renee [...]

“What frequently happens is I work really hard to get someone to see what the issue is, and then immediately they want me to tell them what the solution is so they can get rid of it without having acknowledged the truth of it in the first place.”

“If I puncture someone’s defense system, then the real material starts coming out. That’s what happened last time with Jocelyn. It happened previously with Janet. And it’s happening with Aaron. The person relates, hiding behind by his defense system, thinking that he is protected from the painful, limiting decision against himself underneath it.”