Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

In this preview I share the personal journey that brought me to a totally positive new thought system, based on the principle “Life is Meant to Work.”

The illusion being created by the attacker it is not about the actual possible physical harm that could be imposed.

People don’t generally realize that our internal state is caused by our interpretation of how we are affected, rather than something objective out in the world that is happening to us.

Approaching this by trying to get him to focus more time on you is an attempt to control what can’t be controlled in reality, and it is a backwards approach to the problem.

You are ALWAYS doing what you conceive of as self-interest, even if it’s denying your self-interest in order to be what you believe to be virtuous.

…it’s never an attachment to the person himself that is what you’re really wanting. It’s the heart of intimacy, the heart of love.

“Once we penetrate past the defensive response — which happens in the group when other people become aware of your defense system — then what comes up is your limiting decision, which is a negative and mistaken decision against yourself and the nature of life…”