Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

People often compromise themselves in relationships rather than revealing what is really true from their perspective, because they don’t believe it could possibly work out if everyone did that.

…it’s never an attachment to the person himself that is what you’re really wanting. It’s the heart of intimacy, the heart of love.

The alternate self has to have things its own way, in it’s control, rather than allowing the Divine truth to be in control and opening to it.

“Taking the action is not the most important thing. The important thing is to straighten out whatever is causing the conflict about the action…”

Q: Is death a choice by the personality? Q: What good is the intellect to the matters of the heart? Q: Is all “perfect” in the universe? if so, what can be said of free will of mankind?

“…When the illusion of reality that most people live in, that they think is what is really supporting them, when they go past it, it seems to be a really big transition. It is about shifting survival systems.”

“This is a very significant period of time in human history. The fact that old structures have been falling apart is causing people to reframe where their source of safety and well-being is…”

“There’s a whole area of communication that you misinterpret in a way that goes against yourself. You’re interpreting things against yourself so rapidly, that it’s hard to catch it in the moment…”

“The point here is to just allow yourself to be inappropriate. It’s not the end of the world. We need to get to the truth before we can untangle it to get to the healed place.”

“I don’t know lots of things. I stand in the question. That’s how I end up knowing things. I walk into the situation, and I know nothing. And so I’m looking, I’m waiting, I’m listening. And then I know something. It just sort of pours in.”