“In working with Cherrie we discovered a lot of her difficulties in relation to money had to do with her relationship with men. She had always been taken advantage of by men she was in relationship with. As she had when she was in business with her husband, she generally ended up doing most of the work, but still thought she needed the man in order to survive or do well. As is generally the case with people, most of these ways of thinking about things is an unconscious process. Consciously Cherrie knew better, but the unconscious limiting decisions had been undermining her anyway.”