Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

“The issue here is whether trying to manipulate truth works better than truth. Following truth takes radical faith in life, in truth, in things working to the best and highest interest for everyone concerned…”

“You’ve gone along with men acting like this before, because you’ve had such a thick defense system. But the defense system is getting shaken up, and is no longer serving you, and therefore you are more present emotionally and vulnerably in a way you haven’t been before…”

“What it keeps turning out that this group is about, is uncovering the masks and defense systems, in order to get to the real self. And the real self is gold, totally gold.”

“That’s what generally happens when I’m revealing the ground a person is standing on, which is the way they form what reality is.”

“To you the world of live material or emotions is dangerous. You don’t trust it, although you’re learning to trust it more, as you’re experiencing what happens when we really get down to the real live material.”

Transcript Excerpts of Jane’s Teachings during the “Shifting into Your New Consciousness” group experience 4/16/09 (Names of participants are changed to protect their privacy.) (Janet asked Jered if he is as emotional as she is.) (To Jered) “This is a very interesting question. As you said in your TimeLine Therapy session, the reason you have [...]

Transcript Excerpts of Jane’s Teachings during the “Shifting into Your New Consciousness” group experience 4/16/09 (Names of participants are changed to protect their privacy.) (Randy said that his wife is no longer accusing him of being passive-aggressive and they haven’t been fighting this past week. This is the first time since he has been in [...]

“I don’t know lots of things. I stand in the question. That’s how I end up knowing things. I walk into the situation, and I know nothing. And so I’m looking, I’m waiting, I’m listening. And then I know something. It just sort of pours in.”

“What frequently happens is I work really hard to get someone to see what the issue is, and then immediately they want me to tell them what the solution is so they can get rid of it without having acknowledged the truth of it in the first place.”

“Men tend to easily see themselves as the center of the universe, and women tend to see the men as the center of the universe, and there is a lot of conflict that happens because of that. But both men and women are evolving and bringing more balance to this.”