People often compromise themselves in relationships rather than revealing what is really true from their perspective, because they don’t believe it could possibly work out if everyone did that.
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People often compromise themselves in relationships rather than revealing what is really true from their perspective, because they don’t believe it could possibly work out if everyone did that. The question is what you are committed to. From a shallow kind of perspective, people can be committed to what makes them feel good in the moment. And so when things get difficult they just leave. On the other side of the pendulum … The real danger is not the physical action someone might take that would be harmful to us, but it is the distorting of reality that is transferred, like a computer virus hidden within a Trojan horse. as your desire to evolve as a soul gets stronger and stronger, the defense system gets more and more in the way… …holding in place a whole frame-of-reference that you’re sure is true and not allowing a space to actually find out what is true. “…so much divorce right now, because people have been trying to conform to some external ideal of what marriage is supposed to be…” “…In the old male paradigm — which is actually quite hard on men, as well as hard on women — the man has to be in control, he has to have the power. If he’s more vulnerable, he’s not being a man. …” “Many people feel that if they let out their real self, they would be too much for other people…” “I have a question about healing past traumas. I recently recovered a traumatic memory of being kidnapped and assaulted when I was a teenager. ..’ Q: Is death a choice by the personality? Q: What good is the intellect to the matters of the heart? Q: Is all “perfect” in the universe? if so, what can be said of free will of mankind? |
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