Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

When a person makes a limiting decision* that they can’t trust their own perception of reality, it makes them overly dependent on how other people respond to them and define reality. It often, also, makes them overly dependent on people they consider authority figures…

People often compromise themselves in relationships rather than revealing what is really true from their perspective, because they don’t believe it could possibly work out if everyone did that.

Focusing on trying to control each other is a losing battle, and if we look out in the world that becomes pretty apparent. … We have been looking in the wrong direction for solutions.

It is making the shift into a new survival system, as radically different as shifting from breathing water, to breathing air.

The truth is, the bad stuff is getting exposed and revealed so it can be healed. We are evolving! Yes there is hope.

It is time to take a good look at what this all means and where we are heading.

Being in integrity with himself is not about the action Sally’s husband (I’m calling Jake) decides to take one way or the other. It’s the process by which he gets there.

The illusion being created by the attacker it is not about the actual possible physical harm that could be imposed.

The people who do these kinds of hateful acts, are like lightening-rods. They serve as an outlet for the kinds of emotions that people don’t generally find acceptable in themselves.

Our whole organism is a very fine-tuned, living instrument that has many means for taking in information, and is highly responsive.