Transformational Teachings from Counselor Jane Ilene Cohen

“What does Louis possibly already seeing someone else, and having sex with them, have to do with you not telling him if you sleep with someone else? It sounds like an escalation of defendedness. You’re staying connected with him from an increasingly more defended place. It’s disconnecting and puts another wall up. It’s like a game.”

“Every time you make a limiting decision, it obscures consciousness. It obscures your connection to reality, to the Divine. And then when you clear the limiting decision, it removes the obstacle. So as you remove the limiting decisions, experience becomes more and more transparent until there are no limiting decisions left, and you are totally clear.”

“Change often doesn’t happen until you’re forced to because the old structure no longer works. This is because change often feels like you are jumping off a cliff. Because of the limiting decision, you don’t do what would be realistic to do, because the limiting decision causes you to believe there is no resource or possibility there. Therefore, thinking of going in that direction seems very foolish. And very possibly if you went in that direction anyway, since you didn’t see the opportunity, it wouldn’t work because of the way the limiting decision has structured your experience of reality.”

“A leader is a person who is accessing reality from their own experience and expressing that. He or she has a fix on reality in a way that others don’t. They have a very strong knowing that something is very important and must be said and is really true. And the truth of it causes people to recognize it. When someone speaks truth you know it, whether or not you’re willing to listen to it, or have a trigger against it. But truth rings true. It has a big effect. And the fact that leaders are connected to truth, makes them leaders.”

“My life’s purpose is in participating in the human evolutionary process. A significant part of that is demonstrating through my work with clients (as well as in my own life) that life is meant to work. When it appears to not be working, there are limiting decisions distorting our experience of reality. When the limiting decisions are cleared, we experience that life does, in fact, work wonderfully well. Another foundational principle this work demonstrates is that the source of our survival and well-being comes from our internal connection with a larger source, rather than at the mercy of external world circumstances. In following this blog, you have the opportunity to experience the reality of these truth as they unfold in the transformational journeys we are sharing with you.”

“This blog category is chronicling the journey of three of my clients who are in the process of transforming their financial realities, from very difficult financial circumstances — to financial abundance.”

“Very intelligent and creative, like Jered he is an out-of-the box thinker. Bennet also loves helping people. He has always managed to survive, but he feels no motivation to earn money until he’s completely out. He has made money at various things, but has felt resistance to being in a position in which he has to pay taxes, because he hasn’t wanted to support the wars the government has perpetrated.”

“Jered grew up in an environment in which thinking of easier and more effective ways of doing things was frowned upon and only hard physical work was thought to be the worthwhile thing to do. A lot of the work with him has been in relation to him not accepting himself, keeping what he’s really doing hidden, so he never gets credit for his real abilities, and ends up doing things for others for free. He has had difficulty finding business partners and people to support him in his projects. He has also had difficulty being paid for what he’s really good at, because he hasn’t put it out there in a way that gets recognized.”

“In working with Cherrie we discovered a lot of her difficulties in relation to money had to do with her relationship with men. She had always been taken advantage of by men she was in relationship with. As she had when she was in business with her husband, she generally ended up doing most of the work, but still thought she needed the man in order to survive or do well. As is generally the case with people, most of these ways of thinking about things is an unconscious process. Consciously Cherrie knew better, but the unconscious limiting decisions had been undermining her anyway.”