Jered is a sensitive, creative man, and similar to Bennet, lives by his own drumbeat. He’s always experienced himself as being different than other people. His passion is finding solutions or ways of doing things that would make people’s lives better.
He has been in business for himself for a long time. He purchases and sells real estate, and sees the possibilities where others don’t see it, and creates projects based on that. He is generally very resourceful at finding good projects and investors. The actual execution of the projects is where he has had major difficulties, because it requires bringing together a team to work with him on it, in order to bring it to successful completion.
Jered grew up in an environment in which thinking of easier and more effective ways of doing things was frowned upon and only hard physical work was thought to be the worthwhile thing to do. A lot of the work with him has been in relation to him not accepting himself, keeping what he’s really doing hidden, so he never gets credit for his real abilities, and ends up doing things for others for free. He has had difficulty finding business partners and people to support him in his projects. He has also had difficulty being paid for what he’s really good at, because he hasn’t put it out there in a way that gets recognized.
Recent limiting decisions cleared through TimeLine Therapy:
- Who he is is not recognized in the framework of those he’s dependent on.
- Functioning in the physical world is hard.
- He can only succeed with hard physical work.
- He doesn’t have an affect on the common world.
- His contribution doesn’t matter.
Through this work, Jered has become much more at ease with himself and others, much more able to communicate, much more open, and much more effective in his work. He is no longer feeling the sense of futility that was constantly with him.
Excerpt from recent communication:
Jered:
“… What remains elusive to me is no matter how enlightened an individual, what are the net effects of uncontrollable external events?”
Jane’s reply:
“It depends on if you fight your external circumstances in an effort to control outcomes from a fixed perspective. If you do, this end up narrowing the possibilities for you, rather than allowing life to open things up. Allowing life to open things up requires coming from the foundation that “life is means to work,” and looking for the doors that open up for you. There are always solutions if you have the channels open to receiving them. As you know from the work we’ve done, your relationship with your external circumstances can be very much colored by limiting decisions, which put you in an unresourceful place.”
(See “Jered Updates” for on-going updates.)
