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Truth is not Adversarial

Transcript Excerpt of Jane’s Teachings
during the “Shifting into your New Consciousness” group 7-30-09

(Participants’ names are changed to protect their privacy.)

(Janet told the group about a man she read about who was a talented dolphin trainer.  And he was so sensitive to dolphins that he knew that the dolphins hated being captive and many become very depressed and commit suicide by stopping breathing.  He quit his job and wrote some publication describing this.  And now he steals dolphins in captivity and frees them, putting himself in jeopardy of being arrested.  Janet then said that she once had a research job in which they were dissecting live lobsters and running tests on them.  The scientists told them that the lobsters didn’t feel anything.  But Janet could feel them screaming, and so she quit the job.)

(To Janet) “Both with this fellow and with you, part of what’s in the picture and messing things up is an adversarial belief system that’s causing you to relate to this in an adversarial manner, rather than make a positive contribution. Your positive contribution is that you are so sensitive that you can hear the lobsters screaming. So this information, this is a contribution, and doesn’t have to be adversarial. It’s similar to what I said last week about that it doesn’t have to be that one person is right and one person is wrong. That’s not what it’s about.  It’s about people contributing their piece in the puzzle.  Now people sometimes put input into the picture, that’s not really their piece in the puzzle, like perhaps the scientists saying the lobsters don’t feel anything.  That’s probably coming from a defense system of some sort. But if you have something that’s really genuine from you — that’s invaluable. That’s a treasure. And so rather than feeling you have to fight someone, or vindicate yourself to someone, or prove something — look for the open channel to contribute this miracle of information.  This is a piece of the Divine, this is a piece of truth, or the Universe or however you want to put it. There’s a place for it.  It’s a gift.  It’s a very fine-tuned sensitivity that both you and this other fellow have.  He’s putting himself in an adversarial position, but he doesn’t need to.  I’m sure if he wasn’t internally experiencing the world from a limiting decision causing an adversarial defense system, he would find a way that he would be embraced and that he could utilize his very fine-tuned sensibilities to contribute something invaluable.  And you too, you don’t have to fight somebody.  It’s a wonderful gift if you don’t see it in terms of being adversarial.  In fact, the adversarial energy is adding to the very thing you’re trying to fight against.

The process of evolution has to do with coming more and more into what’s really true.  And so human experience keeps evolving more and more toward what’s true.  And what’s true is not adversarial.  What’s true is not about criticism.  What’s true has to do with people putting into the picture their piece of the puzzle, their perception of things, and this isn’t against someone else’s perception.  It’s an addition.  And if you add each of these in there, then you get a much better idea of what the whole picture is. Now in the old frame-of-reference, in which you’re right and I’m wrong, and I’m going to criticize you, if someone puts their piece of the picture in there that looks different than what another person puts in, that person then feels they’re being criticized.  But it has nothing to do with that.  It doesn’t mean there isn’t any space for that person.  If you bring the participants all into the picture, and then you see something that has far more dimensions and far more truth, and can catalyze something altogether different.”

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Each Person Has a Part to Play

Transcript Excerpt of Jane’s Teachings
during the “Shifting into Your New Consciousness” group 7-23-09

(Participants’ names are changed to protect their privacy.)

(Rita told the group she hadn’t been there last week because she had a class she went to on sex.  Melanie said something about thinking Rita went to this class because she wanted to immediately get into another relationship with a man, and that that was more important to her than coming to the group.)

(To Melanie)  “You’re assuming what this class is and the meaning of it for Rita, and then having made the assumption, and without asking her about what it was, you scold her.  You’re so sure that your assumption is accurate, that you don’t stand in the question. This group is about standing in the question.  You reveal your response, and then you find out what’s actually there. You walk into the unknown to a place where you don’t already know the answer, which is extremely important for transformation.

Not allowing yourself to stand in the question and stand in a place where you don’t know — that seems to be one of your largest defense systems.  It is filling in the space, not leaving it open to find out what’s actually there, because in your original family it was very dangerous to allow your mother to take over the situation, because she’d be violent.  So you were filling in the space all of the time to distract her, to make it safe for yourself.  And you’re doing it less now, but that’s still one of your major defense system.  It’s ‘don’t ask a question, don’t stand in the question, don’t leave any space for whatever is really true in the situation.’

Your perspective, as well as Rita’s perspective are both important pieces of the puzzle.  It’s not a matter of one person being right and the other person being wrong.  The piece that you added that was very important, was how important this group is to you, and how important it is to you that everyone else is committed to putting 100% in. Now that adds to the picture.  And it does not conflict with Rita’s perspective and where Rita was coming from that was important for her.  It’s just that there are different pieces of the puzzle that different people bring into the picture, and they’re all important, and they’re all legitimate.

When we get these different inputs from different people looking at the situation different ways, it’s like different facets to a picture. And you put it together and you have a much richer idea, sense of truth. And it doesn’t exclude anybody. And it’s not one person is right and one person is wrong.  It adds another color. It adds another dimension in which not only is there room for everyone, but everyone has an important part to play or important piece of the puzzle.”

(Melanie responded to a group interaction about her response to Rita as if she’s being criticized.)

“This is an example of an inner world that you carry with you and you interpret input that you get from within that world.  So what people were noticing about you is that you were scolding Rita. And so now you think that if anyone has any response to you, they’re scolding you. You were taking what people said as a criticism of you because that’s the world you live in, a world in which people criticize each other, rather than including people as a part of the picture. The way I’m looking at it is it’s all positive.”

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Contributing Your Piece of the Puzzle

Transcript Excerpts of Jane’s Teachings during a
Shifting into Your New Consciousness Group 3/12/09

(In an interaction in the group, Aaron had a response which he withheld. He said he did that in order to let things play out as they would, without him interfering with them.) “Aaron doesn’t see that if he has a response to something, that response is an integral part of what is happening in this moment. You think that you putting something in the picture distorts the situation. But the opposite is true. If you don’t put in what’s true for you in the moment, then you are distorting the picture, because you exist. Your response exists. You withholding it, is you keeping your piece of the puzzle out of the picture so the whole can’t morph into what it’s meant to morph into.”

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