People Are Generally Always Manipulating Their Circumstances
Transcript Excerpts of Jane’s Teachings
during the “Shifting into Your New Consciousness” Group 10-08-09
(Participants’ names are changed to protect their privacy.)
(To Paul) “If you were to say things full out the way you really see them, the way you really feel them, and be where you really are — the way you have it formed in your mind is it’s going to be impossible. Things can’t work with Kira, or you’re not going to be able to make things work at work or with your sisters. There is some way that you don’t come down where you really are at. You only reveal a little bit of it. You say things in a minimal way, rather than full out the way you really are experiencing it. So there’s some way that you don’t really believe that life is meant to work, that truth will end up with things working well. And this is the major thing for all of us, for humanity. We think that it’s our manipulations and our fudgings and our organizing things this way and that way, from our limited perspective, that is somehow making life work. And probably children — and that’s where it begins — the child thinks that the little thing he or she is doing, they think it’s keeping a catastrophe from happening, or a parent from leaving, or whatever association they give it. And that’s what people are doing all of the time. People are generally always manipulating their circumstance to one degree or another, because they don’t believe that things being really the way they are, and being in truth and following what’s truly important and real for you, will end up with things working. People don’t generally believe that.”
(Laura asked how people can stop manipulating things.)
“We’re talking about a major paradigm shift for humanity. There’s a whole frame-of-reference that’s being held in place by everyone. So it’s a process. It’s not something you can just do. It’s a process of being able to come into truth more and more as you clear limiting decisions*.”
(To Paul) “You’ve been afraid to advance yourself as fast as you could because you’re afraid of leaving Kira behind. And so that is a form of the manipulation that I’ve been describing. And underneath that is a lack of realizing that there is a larger intelligence, with a larger perspective beyond the limited perspective that each of us can see of the picture. We’re only seeing a very small view of what’s really happening in the larger frame-of-reference. And from the perspective that life is meant to work, the best you can do is to follow truth, on as deep a level as you can in order to allow what is really meant to happen, to happen. So within the frame-of-reference that you’re looking at it, there really isn’t a solution, or it doesn’t look very hopeful. But there’s a larger frame-of-reference beyond that. And so you have got to get yourself out of this very narrow perspective on things, and start participating in a larger frame-of-reference. Your path and Kira’s path are beyond just the relationship between the two of you. She’s on her life’s path, and you don’t really know exactly what that path is. And you’re on your life’s path, and you don’t know exactly what that is. And you’re trying to manipulate it to work a certain way. And that’s not really going to help. And it hasn’t been helping. It hasn’t been moving things forward. So you need to be on your path, following your path. That’s the only way anything can work.
There is some way that you are not allowing yourself to be in your territory and her to be in her territory. You will have an affect on other people from within your territory, if you reveal where you are at. And that is a much more Divinely guided place to be in because it’s truth. It’s where you’re really at, rather than trying to manipulate her to get her to be in a different place. Trying to have an affect by keeping yourself hidden, and managing the other person, whether at work or with Kira, is not in alignment with Divine order. Instead you reveal where you are at — what works, what doesn’t work for you, what you want, how you respond. You can only connect with Divine order if you’re in truth.”
