The Universe is Filled with Resources
Transcript Excerpt of Jane’s teachings during
the “Shifting into Your New Consciousness” group 9-3-09
(Participant’s names are changed to protect their privacy.)
To Rita: When people don’t receive what they need from their parents, they tend to make a limiting decision that they’re not going to get what they need. Now, the limiting decision can be in the form of ‘Oh, gosh, I can’t get what I need.’ Or it can become a power-struggle in which you dig in your heels and say, ‘If I don’t get it from them, I won’t get it from anyone else,’ which means ‘I’m not going to accept it from anyone except from those people, because they’re suppose to give it to me because they’re the parents.’ But your parents are just bumbling souls like everyone else. They don’t necessarily have the tools to be parents. They’re just in that position. And they’re not necessarily more advanced than you are. In fact they’re usually less advanced because that’s the way evolution works. The children are more evolved than the parents. The universe is filled with resources, with everything you could possibly need. But it may not come in the form you decided it should come in. So if you get into a power-struggle that it has to come from your parents or you’re not going to receive it, you are then holding that limiting decision in place with that power-struggle. Then you have the channels closed and the universe can’t give you what you need, because you won’t accept it from any place but that person. In this case it is your mother who has to give it to you. And if she doesn’t, you decide, ‘That means, I’m not loved.’ Or ‘That means, ‘I’m not cared for.’ No that’s not what it means. It means that, for whatever reason, your mother is on her own path, and just can’t do it, or won’t do it, or whatever. But you’re not dependent on her. You’re dependent on a larger reality than her. And the universe has exactly what you need, if you don’t get into a power-struggle and make a limiting decision. You’re a perfectly capable woman, and you’ve proven that to yourself. And it appears to me, that you may be causing yourself to be incapable in order to make her take care of you. And she’s not cooperating. You’re trying to get her to play a role that she cannot play. For whatever reason, whatever her unhealed issues are, she can’t do it. And when you try to get her to do it, she freaks out. So it’s not going to be solved through her. Perhaps you are focused on getting her to take care of you, rather than getting out there and getting a job. I don’t think you’re consciously doing this, but you may be undermining yourself. And we keep clearing stuff that is undermining your ability to function and so you’re functioning a lot better now. But you may be, on an unconscious level, undermining your efforts in order to get her to do what she’s ‘supposed to do.’ And we can get to what that is, because it should be cleared.”
(Ren said she’d just have to accept not having a mother.)
“It’s not that you have to accept not getting what you need. You don’t have to accept not having a mother. The bottom line is life is meant to work. That means you have everything you need. You don’t have to accept not having enough. But there’s a decision inside that you don’t have what you need, or a decision, in some form that boils down to that life is not meant to work. That’s what needs to be changed. It’s definitely not that you have to accept anything less than everything. But you won’t necessarily get it from your mother. You’re never dependent on another person to get what you need. The Universe is filled with resources. The source for what you need is not out there. The source for what you need is inside of you and your internal connection with the Divine. That means if you are in alignment, then whatever it is you need will show up in some form. It may come from this person or that person or that person. But you’re not dependent on the person through which it shows up. They are just the vehicle through which the Divine is giving you what you need. And if it doesn’t come from this person, it will come from someone else.
This is really important because this is what often happens when people who are more evolved get born into either a whole social context or to a family, who is less evolved. And sometimes the gap between the parent (or social context) and the child is really large. And the child often doesn’t realize that they’re more evolved. They think the parent is older so they’re supposed to know more, they’re supposed to be wiser. And ‘Why can’t they see what I see? It’s perfectly obvious. What’s wrong with you?’ So they are trying to lean on this less evolved person as if they should be able to support and help them. And they can’t, and the pressure that the child puts on them to support them is more than the parent can handle, because it’s like trying to expand something that’s really tiny, and they can’t do it. And some parents are really upset by this.”
Rita: That’s how my mom acts.
“You’re trying to force her to be bigger than she is. She’s too small to expand to where you’re coming from. On a soul level, she cannot be your parent. She is biologically your parent, and she fed you, etc. But on a soul, spiritual level, she cannot do it. She is too unevolved. You can’t get it from her. The child trying to make the parent expand to where they are is too much for the parent. So it’s not that she doesn’t love you. It’s not that she doesn’t care about you. She’s just not big enough. She’s not expanded enough.
And this goes back to the big shift that humanity is going through right now, which is that the source of what we need, the source of our safety and well-being is not out there. We think it’s got to be the parent, it has to be the government, it has to be the banks, it has to be all of those different sources of safety. That’s not where it comes from. The real source is larger than all of us. It’s the Universe, and we access it internally. The source in inside not outside. You can take comfort in the fact that this is the big shift that humanity is going through right now, so if you haven’t really gotten it, that’s because none of us have totally gotten it yet. This is a huge transformation. This is a really, really big deal.”
